Thanksgiving

This year Quinn was 6 days old on Thanksgiving.  So needless to say, I pretty much ignored the holiday.  Fortunately, my parents were in town and Holly volunteered to host Thanksgiving dinner. We had a lovely meal and snapped a picture of all of us afterward.  

Happy Thanksgiving!

Susannah Quinn Kartchner

The following is Quinn's Birth Story.  If you don't want to read birth details, don't read it.  =) 

I was due on November 17.  On November 14, Jake had to attended a CLE in Fredericksburg and I REALLY didn't want to go into labor with him so far away.  But, of course, on that day I started showing signs of labor (I lost the mucus plug, starting having bloody show) so I spent that day laying on the couch.  The next morning (the 15th) I woke up with some contractions that were fairly close together, so I spent the morning cleaning the house in anticipation of potentially going to the hospital that day.  Around noon my contractions were about 5 minutes apart, but not painful at all.  I called my doctor and she told me to go on in so they could check and see how far along I was.  

I called Jake at work to tell him to come home.  I couldn't reach him on his cell phone, so I called the office line to talk to the secretary.  I found out that Jake was in court (which is why he wasn't answering), but was due back within the hour.  I told the secretary something along the lines of "it's not urgent, but I might be in labor, so have Jake call me when he gets in."  Apparently, that started a bit of a commotion in the office.  As soon as Jake got back to the office he headed home.  While I was waiting, I called Holly to come babysit Paige (little sister to the rescue!) and I ate lunch since the worst part about the delivery with Paige was being hungry. 

When Jake got home we snapped a picture of me at my biggest and headed off to the hospital.

By the time we got to the hospital, my contractions had pretty much stopped. I was really worried they were going to send me home, but my doctor said I only needed to be dilated to 4 cm to be admitted so I figured I could at least get checked out.  I got checked in, sent to triage, hooked up to the monitors and then was basically forgotten.  We hung out in triage for about 2 hours until finally Jake went to find out how much longer it would be. The nurse he talked to came right in to check me.  The first nurse to check me said I was only at a 2 or a 3 (SO disappointing!!) but she said she wanted a different nurse to check to make sure.  The next nurse came, checked me, and then left without saying anything.  After a suspenseful 5 minutes or so, a different nurse came and said they were keeping me!  I answered all the questions and they sent me up to Labor and Delivery.

I got into my delivery room around 7:30 pm.  My nurse's name was Julie and she was the best.  She was really nice and made the labor experience great.  Dr. Whyte came in and checked me and we decided to speed up labor.  She broke my water (which was the strangest feeling ever and I couldn't stop laughing.  It felt like I was peeing myself, and every time I moved it felt like that all over again.) and then I got the lovely epidural and they started me on pitocin.  I had forgotten how amazing an epidural is. Since my contractions were fairly infrequent (and weren't painful to begin with) I didn't need it for that, but it took away ALL the discomfort from being pregnant. All the aches in my stretched out, overworked belly were GONE.  I was able, for the first time in months, just relax and watch TV with Jake.  It was AMAZING.  After awhile (after checking with the nurse to see if it was ok) we turned out the lights in the room and tried to get some sleep. Dr. Whyte stopped in and said that it seemed like we were there on vacation instead of there having a baby.  

Around 11:00 pm or so Quinn's heartbeat dropped a lot.  They turned off the pitocin and put an oxygen mask on me (which was awful).  Around midnight, I started feeling some pain (the pain of my body bearing down) so I had them come in and increase the epidural.  We waited a bit longer and then around 1:00 am the doctor decided it was time to push.  On the first push Quinn was already crowning.  After just a couple pushes Julie called Dr. Whyte back in and shortly after (at 1:23 am) Quinn was born! I only pushed through 5 or so contractions (which was a relief, having pushed for 1.5 hours with Paige).

Jake cut the umbilical cord while they put her up on my chest.  Since she didn't spend much time in the birth canal, Quinn still had a bunch of gunk in her lungs.  She started to turn a little purple, so the nurse took her and cleaned her out.  She was fine after that, although it did take a few days to get that all worked out.  She kind of sounded like a rhinoceros breathing.    

All I needed was a couple stitches and I was good to go.

Quinn was the sweetest little newborn.  She had a fantastic latch and was nursing away.  She kept rooting, so I kept feeding her. After a little bit, the nurse told me to stop feeding her because she was still blocked up and was choking.  Apparently newborns aren't supposed to eat so much.

One night in the hospital, the nurses brought a crying Quinn in from the nursery, saying that they thought she was hungry (even though it had only been an hour or so since she last ate) since she wasn't calming down.  I picked her up and as soon as she touched my skin she cuddled up and instantly stopped crying.  It was the sweetest thing.  She just wanted her mommy!

We're so happy to have our little Quinn here.  She's the perfect addition to our family.

Susannah Quinn Kartchner

Born 1:23 am

16 November 2012

8 lbs. 2 oz. 

20 3/4 inches

False Alarm

I had a check up at 37.5 weeks, and the amniotic fluid measured a bit low and Quinn wasn't moving much (which is actually typical in the mornings).  So my doctor sent me to the hospital the next day for a further test, telling me that if the fluid was still low they'd deliver the baby. 

So I went to the hospital the next day, a little bit excited to be potentially be having a baby!  But nope.  Everything was fine (which is a good thing despite the fact that I'm STILL pregnant) so Quinn has to stay in there a little while longer.  If she's not here by November 19, I'll be induced that day. 

While Jake and I were at the hospital, Paige went to hang out with Holly and gang.  Here is a picture of all of them together in Holly's car: 

Here is a picture of me at around 36 weeks:

It doesn't seem physically possible, but now 2.5 weeks later I'm EVEN BIGGER.

Halloween

Halloween is so much more fun when you have a kid old enough to get into it.  Paige loved dressing up this year.  For the ward party she dressed as Minnie Mouse: 

She loved wearing the dress and the ears (and wears them around the house frequently).   My costume was a totem pole (I was one face, Quinn was the other face):

 Jake dressed up like PSY and had Gangnam Style playing from his phone the whole time.

It took Paige a couple of trunks to figure out what trunk-or-treating was all about, but she soon got the hang of it and LOVED it.

And of course since she loved trunk-or-treating she was super excited to go trick-or-treating on Halloween. Holly and her kids came with us.

Paige and Heidi dressed up like two little ladybugs:

Peter the mouse:

Paige would walk up to a house and say "trick-or-treat!" before even knocking on the door.

After just a few houses the two little bugs got a bit worn out, so Jake carried both of them home.  During the walk home they just looked at each other and kept giggling.

For days Paige has been begging to go trick-or-treating again.  She keeps saying: "when it's dark Heidi will come over, we'll both be ladybugs, and we'll go trick-or-trick again."   She's been struggling to grasp the fact that we just go trick-or-treating once a year.

Swearing In Ceremony

The last step in becoming a licensed attorney was for Jake to be sworn in to the Supreme Court in Virginia.  He went down to Richmond and participated in the ceremony. 

The ceremony itself was scheduled to take place on the day that Hurricane Sandy hit our area.  Absolutely everything was canceled that day EXCEPT the ceremony.  The federal government was all shut down, the government offices in Richmond were shut down, and even the Virginia Bar Association (the people hosting the ceremony) was shut down. But they didn't reschedule the swearing in.  I really wanted to go to the ceremony, but I didn't want to risk going into labor in a hurricane in Richmond so I stayed home. 

Richmond Trip

 Jake attended a CLE class in Richmond to get a certification he needed and Paige and I decided to go with him.  It ended up being pretty fun.  We left early Friday morning, pulling Paige out of bed and taking her in her pjs.  We dropped Jake off at the class and then Paige and I set out to entertain ourselves.  I decided last minute that I was going to go along so I had no plans and no idea of what to do while we were there.

We started off with breakfast at McDonalds:

And then spent the entire day at the Children's Museum of Richmond.  Paige was in heaven!  This museum was pretty awesome.  There was a TON for Paige to run around and play with and all I had to do was follow her.  The museum wasn't very busy, which made it even better.

Here are just a few of the things she did:

Digging for dinosaur bones (which later she described as "digging for dinosaur bums"):

 Sitting on a dinosaur (she looks terrified, but she was actually enjoying it):

Playing with one of these things (what are those called??):

You can make the hen "lay an egg" and it drops down (she did this approximately 800 times):

Posing in an apple tree (she's saying "cheeeese!"):

Painting in the craft room (again: "cheeeese!"):

Shopping in the little grocery store (my favorite part, mostly because I remember doing this when I was younger):

Planting and picking vegetables:

 It was a really awesome museum. Paige really loved it and begs me constantly to go back.

We stayed that night in a hotel, which was kind of disastrous.  Jake and I expected (for some reason) that Paige would fall asleep quickly around 7:00 (like she did every night we were in New York) and then we could read/watch TV/get caught up on work.  But that didn't happen.  She took hours to fall asleep, so we had to have the room dark and quiet until she was asleep.  Then around 3:00am she woke up SCREAMING and took another hour to fall back asleep (sorry, neighbors...).   Not quite the relaxing night we were picturing. 

The next day, Jake went to class again while Paige and I explored the public library.  Like most libraries they had an awesome kid's section, so we hung out there reading books and playing with the toys until it was time to go home.

Then Paige cried/whined pretty much the entire drive back.  Ugh. 

But other than the whining parts, it was actually pretty fun to get out of the house and see some place new.

Pass!!

After over two months of waiting for the results, we FINALLY found out... 

JAKE PASSED THE VIRGINIA BAR!!

We couldn't be happier or more grateful that he passed.